What do interesting people actually think about?

132 questions. Takes an hour. You answer, everyone else answers, and then you get to read all of it.

Request to join

No. 001

What do you do first thing in the morning?

No. 003

What's your favorite personal/friend/family tradition?

No. 005

What's a non-fiction book you love?

No. 007

Anything good you read recently?

No. 009

Is there a painting you love?

No. 011

What's a movie you love?

No. 013

What's your favorite blog or piece of online writing?

No. 015

What's your favorite restaurant?

No. 017

Which fictional character inspired you the most?

No. 019

Which video game influenced you the most?

No. 021

What music do you listen to recently?

No. 023

What's your best purchase over $100?

No. 025

What does your diet roughly look like? Anything weird you eat? Do you take any supplements?

No. 027

What's your favorite dish to cook/bake?

No. 029

What tabs do you have open? Other software tools you use a lot?

No. 031

What's a decision you made in the last year that most people in your position wouldn't have made?

No. 033

What are you certain about?

No. 035

What does your friend group look like? When did you meet them?

No. 037

What's something you deliberately stopped optimizing for or never optimized for?

No. 039

What's a rule you follow?

No. 041

What's something you think is widely underpriced (in time, money, or attention)?

No. 043

What's a consensus view that is wrong?

No. 045

What do you believe is true even though you cannot prove it?

No. 047

When you need to learn something new fast, what's your actual process?

No. 049

What do you want to do more of?

No. 051

Who's an overrated public personality with influence in your circles?

No. 053

Who do you pay attention to that few people in your world pay attention to?

No. 055

What's your favorite source of information?

No. 057

What's the most useful thing you learned from someone much younger than you?

No. 059

What or who has most impacted your taste in ideas?

No. 061

What do you want from people?

No. 063

What are you afraid of?

No. 065

What is a narrative you are running in the story of your own life?

No. 067

What are you addicted to? Any addiction you're suppressing or suppressed in the past? Did you replace it with anything else?

No. 069

What job other than your own would you like to attempt?

No. 071

When is your debt to society paid?

No. 073

What are the extremes of your specific human experience?

No. 075

What do you consider the most interesting recent news?

No. 077

What is your favorite explanation?

No. 079

How has AI changed your habits?

No. 081

How many cold emails have you sent?

No. 083

What have you changed your mind about? Why?

No. 085

What is your dangerous idea?

No. 087

Who would you bet all your money on who has not already been successful?

No. 089

Which specific event most affected your life?

No. 091

What's your favorite part of the day?

No. 093

What are you proud of that you rarely have the occasion to talk about?

No. 095

How would you summarize your life up until now in one sentence?

No. 097

What gets you out of bed in the morning?

No. 099

Teach me something about your favorite topic in the world

No. 101

Give me a prediction for the future with a timestamp.

No. 103

What do you find sacred?

No. 105

What's your relationship with religion?

No. 107

What emotion do you experience unusually rarely?

No. 109

What's the most "you" thing you do when nobody's watching?

No. 111

What's an obscure website you wish more people knew about?

No. 113

What are you really terrible at?

No. 115

What have you been thinking about lately?

No. 117

What's the most expensive lesson you've learned, in any currency?

No. 119

What's the weirdest thing that's on your calendar in the next month?

No. 121

What's your favorite season-constrained thing you do?

No. 123

What's the version of yourself you perform most often, and how does it differ from the other parts of you?

No. 125

Do you exercise? What do you do and how much?

No. 127

What's a sentence from something you read that you carry around?

No. 129

What's something you used to think was important that you've now abandoned?

No. 131

What's the most useful concept you've imported from a totally unrelated domain?

No. 133

What's a hiring or collaboration heuristic you've developed that works for you?

No. 135

What's your favorite question to ask others?

No. 001

What do you do first thing in the morning?

No. 003

What's your favorite personal/friend/family tradition?

No. 005

What's a non-fiction book you love?

No. 007

Anything good you read recently?

No. 009

Is there a painting you love?

No. 011

What's a movie you love?

No. 013

What's your favorite blog or piece of online writing?

No. 015

What's your favorite restaurant?

No. 017

Which fictional character inspired you the most?

No. 019

Which video game influenced you the most?

No. 021

What music do you listen to recently?

No. 023

What's your best purchase over $100?

No. 025

What does your diet roughly look like? Anything weird you eat? Do you take any supplements?

No. 027

What's your favorite dish to cook/bake?

No. 029

What tabs do you have open? Other software tools you use a lot?

No. 031

What's a decision you made in the last year that most people in your position wouldn't have made?

No. 033

What are you certain about?

No. 035

What does your friend group look like? When did you meet them?

No. 037

What's something you deliberately stopped optimizing for or never optimized for?

No. 039

What's a rule you follow?

No. 041

What's something you think is widely underpriced (in time, money, or attention)?

No. 043

What's a consensus view that is wrong?

No. 045

What do you believe is true even though you cannot prove it?

No. 047

When you need to learn something new fast, what's your actual process?

No. 049

What do you want to do more of?

No. 051

Who's an overrated public personality with influence in your circles?

No. 053

Who do you pay attention to that few people in your world pay attention to?

No. 055

What's your favorite source of information?

No. 057

What's the most useful thing you learned from someone much younger than you?

No. 059

What or who has most impacted your taste in ideas?

No. 061

What do you want from people?

No. 063

What are you afraid of?

No. 065

What is a narrative you are running in the story of your own life?

No. 067

What are you addicted to? Any addiction you're suppressing or suppressed in the past? Did you replace it with anything else?

No. 069

What job other than your own would you like to attempt?

No. 071

When is your debt to society paid?

No. 073

What are the extremes of your specific human experience?

No. 075

What do you consider the most interesting recent news?

No. 077

What is your favorite explanation?

No. 079

How has AI changed your habits?

No. 081

How many cold emails have you sent?

No. 083

What have you changed your mind about? Why?

No. 085

What is your dangerous idea?

No. 087

Who would you bet all your money on who has not already been successful?

No. 089

Which specific event most affected your life?

No. 091

What's your favorite part of the day?

No. 093

What are you proud of that you rarely have the occasion to talk about?

No. 095

How would you summarize your life up until now in one sentence?

No. 097

What gets you out of bed in the morning?

No. 099

Teach me something about your favorite topic in the world

No. 101

Give me a prediction for the future with a timestamp.

No. 103

What do you find sacred?

No. 105

What's your relationship with religion?

No. 107

What emotion do you experience unusually rarely?

No. 109

What's the most "you" thing you do when nobody's watching?

No. 111

What's an obscure website you wish more people knew about?

No. 113

What are you really terrible at?

No. 115

What have you been thinking about lately?

No. 117

What's the most expensive lesson you've learned, in any currency?

No. 119

What's the weirdest thing that's on your calendar in the next month?

No. 121

What's your favorite season-constrained thing you do?

No. 123

What's the version of yourself you perform most often, and how does it differ from the other parts of you?

No. 125

Do you exercise? What do you do and how much?

No. 127

What's a sentence from something you read that you carry around?

No. 129

What's something you used to think was important that you've now abandoned?

No. 131

What's the most useful concept you've imported from a totally unrelated domain?

No. 133

What's a hiring or collaboration heuristic you've developed that works for you?

No. 135

What's your favorite question to ask others?

No. 002

Do you have recurring rituals?

No. 004

Do you write? If so, what do you write about? What's your setup?

No. 006

What's a fiction book you love?

No. 008

Is there a poem you love?

No. 010

What's a documentary you love?

No. 012

What's your favorite podcast?

No. 014

What's your favorite coffee place?

No. 016

What's the last rabbithole you were into?

No. 018

Which historical character inspired you the most?

No. 020

What's your favorite board game?

No. 022

What's your best purchase under $100?

No. 024

What's a strong belief you have?

No. 026

What do you monitor in your body or environment? How?

No. 028

What is something unusual you did early on in life?

No. 030

What physical tools do you use a lot?

No. 032

What are things you don't care about?

No. 034

What's the most important for you in choosing where to live?

No. 036

What do you optimize for?

No. 038

What do you want in life? What drives you?

No. 040

What do you consistently say no to?

No. 042

What's a consensus view that is right?

No. 044

What do you think most ambitious people your age do wrong?

No. 046

What's a skill or domain you studied that has nothing to do with your work but is helpful to you in some way?

No. 048

What's your favorite youtube channel?

No. 050

What's an underrated twitter account?

No. 052

Do you have advice for an ambitious young person?

No. 054

Any way that you optimize your health?

No. 056

What's the most useful thing you learned from someone much older than you?

No. 058

What is the kindest thing anyone has done for you?

No. 060

What is the most exciting scientific or technical problem to you other than the one you might be working on?

No. 062

What do you want to offer to people?

No. 064

How do you have fun?

No. 066

What are you exploring more deeply at this point in your life?

No. 068

What is your most treasured object?

No. 070

What do you spend more money than the average person on?

No. 072

What intellectual gravity well (concepts, philosophies, ideas..) are you caught up in?

No. 074

What ought to be more widely known or understood?

No. 076

What should we be worried about?

No. 078

What cultural artefacts are you made of?

No. 080

How has AI changed your goals?

No. 082

What will change everything?

No. 084

What are you optimistic about?

No. 086

What is the most important human invention?

No. 088

Who had the most positive impact on your life?

No. 090

What were the best two seconds of this year so far?

No. 092

What's the best compliment you've ever received?

No. 094

What's your favorite smell?

No. 096

What's your relationship with death? Are you scared? Do you think about it often?

No. 098

How would you make $1k legally on the internet today?

No. 100

What's something tangible you want?

No. 102

What do you want to see more of in the world?

No. 104

If you could make one value universal, which one, and why that one?

No. 106

What emotion do you experience unusually often?

No. 108

What do people systematically misunderstand about you?

No. 110

What's something you're embarrassed to love?

No. 112

What's something that brought you joy recently?

No. 114

If you wanted people to know only one fact about you, what would it be?

No. 116

What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?

No. 118

What's a problem you think about regularly that you have no professional reason to think about?

No. 120

What's a favor you love being asked for?

No. 122

What's a bet you're currently making that you wouldn't advise anyone else to make?

No. 124

Do you have a meditation practice? If yes what does it look like?

No. 126

What does your average day schedule roughly look like?

No. 128

What aesthetic choice in your life reveals the most about you?

No. 130

What's a framework/lens through which you often look at things?

No. 132

What's a great gift you've received?

No. 134

What's the most underrated skill right now?

No. 136

What question did I not ask that I should have asked you specifically?

No. 002

Do you have recurring rituals?

No. 004

Do you write? If so, what do you write about? What's your setup?

No. 006

What's a fiction book you love?

No. 008

Is there a poem you love?

No. 010

What's a documentary you love?

No. 012

What's your favorite podcast?

No. 014

What's your favorite coffee place?

No. 016

What's the last rabbithole you were into?

No. 018

Which historical character inspired you the most?

No. 020

What's your favorite board game?

No. 022

What's your best purchase under $100?

No. 024

What's a strong belief you have?

No. 026

What do you monitor in your body or environment? How?

No. 028

What is something unusual you did early on in life?

No. 030

What physical tools do you use a lot?

No. 032

What are things you don't care about?

No. 034

What's the most important for you in choosing where to live?

No. 036

What do you optimize for?

No. 038

What do you want in life? What drives you?

No. 040

What do you consistently say no to?

No. 042

What's a consensus view that is right?

No. 044

What do you think most ambitious people your age do wrong?

No. 046

What's a skill or domain you studied that has nothing to do with your work but is helpful to you in some way?

No. 048

What's your favorite youtube channel?

No. 050

What's an underrated twitter account?

No. 052

Do you have advice for an ambitious young person?

No. 054

Any way that you optimize your health?

No. 056

What's the most useful thing you learned from someone much older than you?

No. 058

What is the kindest thing anyone has done for you?

No. 060

What is the most exciting scientific or technical problem to you other than the one you might be working on?

No. 062

What do you want to offer to people?

No. 064

How do you have fun?

No. 066

What are you exploring more deeply at this point in your life?

No. 068

What is your most treasured object?

No. 070

What do you spend more money than the average person on?

No. 072

What intellectual gravity well (concepts, philosophies, ideas..) are you caught up in?

No. 074

What ought to be more widely known or understood?

No. 076

What should we be worried about?

No. 078

What cultural artefacts are you made of?

No. 080

How has AI changed your goals?

No. 082

What will change everything?

No. 084

What are you optimistic about?

No. 086

What is the most important human invention?

No. 088

Who had the most positive impact on your life?

No. 090

What were the best two seconds of this year so far?

No. 092

What's the best compliment you've ever received?

No. 094

What's your favorite smell?

No. 096

What's your relationship with death? Are you scared? Do you think about it often?

No. 098

How would you make $1k legally on the internet today?

No. 100

What's something tangible you want?

No. 102

What do you want to see more of in the world?

No. 104

If you could make one value universal, which one, and why that one?

No. 106

What emotion do you experience unusually often?

No. 108

What do people systematically misunderstand about you?

No. 110

What's something you're embarrassed to love?

No. 112

What's something that brought you joy recently?

No. 114

If you wanted people to know only one fact about you, what would it be?

No. 116

What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?

No. 118

What's a problem you think about regularly that you have no professional reason to think about?

No. 120

What's a favor you love being asked for?

No. 122

What's a bet you're currently making that you wouldn't advise anyone else to make?

No. 124

Do you have a meditation practice? If yes what does it look like?

No. 126

What does your average day schedule roughly look like?

No. 128

What aesthetic choice in your life reveals the most about you?

No. 130

What's a framework/lens through which you often look at things?

No. 132

What's a great gift you've received?

No. 134

What's the most underrated skill right now?

No. 136

What question did I not ask that I should have asked you specifically?

From the archive

What gets you out of bed in the morning?

“Eat good food with close ones, I think about it often – to have these good times. But concretely most days it’s the idea of learning new things and being at the frontier. If I’m not at the frontier, I feel like I’m just learning things that have already been learned — and that’s nice, but limited.”

M.L.

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